How To Tell…

I was asked a question recently by a friend at work that at first, made me want to go all Rip Taylor…but then my more rational side prevailed and I was compelled to offer the following:
Relationships are full of ups and downs. One day, you may be the love of each other’s lives and […]

Make Time For Life

Ever since I’ve been old enough to make my own decisions, I never liked taking the easy route. I’ve always taken the long way around. Just recently I realized why I’ve always done that. I like to learn. I’m not just talking about reading a book or researching a topic, I like to learn life lessons.
I have […]

Sex In The Wireless Age

Have you noticed how disconnected we’ve all become lately?
I realize this isn’t a new question, but it seems more apparent every day that the art of actually talking face to face has gone the way of the Dodo bird.
Not that that is a bad thing all the time.  As one who suffers horrible from social […]

Hi, Can I Fuck Up Your Order?

So it’s come to this.
Earlier this morning, I was on the cell phone talking to my girlfriend, Deschner, about our similar situations trying to find work. He lives in the Kansas City Metro area (on the Kansas side). It was one of those weird conversations because he and I usually laugh our asses […]

Miss Cleo Never Told ME About This!!

Well, we’re closing in on the end of our 8th week here in the sunny state of California.
I have to say, we’ve enjoyed so much the weather, people, places and events in just this short time.  We’ve met a great bunch of people who have made it clear that we are the topic of many […]

Wall of Confusion

I know exactly what some will say after they read the following, and to them I say, “At least I had the balls to try.”
I’m referring, of course, to this grand experiment we called ‘moving to California’.  So much has gone bad in just 6 weeks that I hardly know where to begin…
But before I […]

A Forth Of Firsts

They always say, “There’s a first time for everything.” And you know what?
They’re right.
Yesterday we (Terry, Theresa, Seth & I) all went up to Millerton lake for some holiday skiing, sunning and schmoozing with friends. We we got there and noticed the lake was at least 25 feet lower than their previous visit…Millerton […]

Down But Not Out

Well, it’s been a month now and still no luck finding work. Since Seth & I relocated here to Fresno, we’ve collectively submitted our resumes hundreds of times and filled out as many applications. The sucky part is that all the applications have to be filled out online.
I hate this process!! It […]

Butch Looks Good On Us!

Last Thursday was a great day! Daniel and I did something for the first time. We didn’t venture out in the city to get to know the town, but we actually took our first trip, other than the move. We made the hour drive North to Yosemite National Park. It was very lesbian of us. […]

Little Fish In A Big Pond

It’s been a little almost three weeks since we arrived here in Fresno, and everything seems to be going pretty well. We’re both tan.  Well, I’m burnt to a crisp, and Seth is bronzing up pretty good. Still in the tail end of the peeling stage, finally, but it looks good.  We’re even building up […]